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Thursday, November 10, 2011

I Would Like To Do What Lily Is Doing


That's right, I would like to be taking a "lay down" as the British say. I learned that term when I lived in England for three months  ~  eleven years ago. I loved that country so much. I was blessed to be living in the southern  area of the country and it was exquisite.  My, my, how I digress! Now, where was I?  Oh, yes, I want to take a "lay down" ! ! !

This week has been busier than usual and my pain level is way too high for my preference. I can take a lot of pain, but please, please, not this much. I guess it is time to see another Pain Specialist. But, honestly, I am pretty tired of seeing doctors.

Yesterday afternoon we took our friend to the surgeon's office because she was having swelling in her right arm subsequent to her breast cancer surgery last Friday. We just needed to be sure that things are progressing as things should.  The doctor that we saw was reassuring regarding the swelling because it was within normal range following the surgery she has undergone. She may need to wear a compression sleeve is it increases. Very unfortunately, her cancer has metastasized to the lymph nodes under her arm. Next week she will see the oncologist and the surgeon for arrangement of the chemotherapy and radiation therapy.

 It was nice to get her out of the house.  And, since it was late in the day, we took her out to dinner.  She really enjoyed it and we were so happy to be able to do it.

I feel so sad that she is experiencing this challenge. This is the first time I have been this close to a friend who is going through cancer surgery/therapy and I can't deny that it is certainly impacting me with a profound sadness. Of course, I have been around cancer as a registered nurse ~ but, this is very different!  I feel so helpless. All I can do is be there for her with love, prayer and support. She is a strong person and I feel that she will get through this, a day at a time.

Tomorrow is a new day. We are expecting some rain this evening and it is beginning to feel like it.

Have a Great Evening.

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Some Additional Special Photos

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Mother's Day 2012

Mother's Day 2012

Happy Family (2014)

Happy Family (2014)
Grandma Pride

Valentine's Day 2013

Valentine's Day 2013

High School (1957) Friends Of Mine On The Left Live In New York and We Met In Canada In 2011

High School (1957) Friends Of Mine On The Left Live In New York and We Met In Canada In 2011

Bud Mietz

Bud Mietz
1928 - 2014